Grieving couple in bid to stop other parents suffering

PRECIOUS MOMENTS: Will Norris with wife Nichole and baby James who died 30 minutes after being born
PRECIOUS MOMENTS: Will Norris with wife Nichole and baby James who died 30 minutes after being born
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A grieving Kirkham couple who lost their baby son just 30 minutes after he was born have launched a crusade to stop other parents suffering the same post-birth heartache.

Baby James Norris was born almost three months early weighing just 2lb 10oz after being diagnosed with a lethal skeletal dysplasia in the womb.

He survived for 30 minutes after birth allowing his parents Will, 26, and mum Nichole Taylor, 27, precious time with their tragic son.

But their heartache at losing their first child was made worse when Nichole was placed back in a delivery suite at the Sharoe Green Unit at Royal Preston Hospital, surrounded by happy families and the cries of newborn babies.

The determined couple have now decided to throw their weight behind a campaign to get all 12 delivery suites at the hospital soundproofed to prevent other parents having the same trauma.

Nichole, of Southlands in Kirkham, said: “I couldn’t be discharged due to complications in the labour and had to stay on the delivery unit.

“We could hear other women having their babies and their first cries.

“It was devastating. We had to use my phone to play music to drown out other women’s cries of being in labour and the cries of the newborns.

“The bereavement suite is also on the main maternity ward and you don’t want to cry and grieve, as other parents are having their special first moments, and you don’t want to ruin it for them.”

Will, a teacher at Pear Tree School in Kirkham, said: “The odds were very much against James and it would have been a miracle for him to survive - we were very fortunate to get that precious 30 minutes.

“He gave us a little wave and we had our family hugs in our arms and then he passed away.

“It was an amazing experience. But it was difficult being around new mums and their babies afterwards.

“We’re supporting the appeal to help soundproof the rooms as we know from our own experience how much difference it will make.”

The Baby Beat Appeal’s project, the Little Ted’s Appeal is aiming to raise £100,000 to soundproof 12 rooms in the delivery unit at RPH. The Little Ted’s Appeal was launched by Spencer Davis and Rachael Marsden, from Euxton, whose son Thomas Edward was stillborn.

Karen Entwistle, from The Baby Beat Appeal, said: “Will and Nichole came to see me and explained the situation with James and said they had read about the Little Ted’s Appeal and wanted to support it.

“It was lovely to meet two amazing and determined people who have been through an incredibly difficult and heartbreaking time but still felt it was important to help other parents who may find themselves in the same tragic situation. Funding has been raised successfully for work to start on two of the rooms but we still need a further £75,000 to soundproof the remaining 10 rooms and their support is truly appreciated”

• To support Will and Nichole’s campaign, go to https://crowdfunding.justgiving.com/angeljames. and see babybeat.co.uk for more on the appeal.