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Husband attacked Facebook love rival



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Published Date:
12 May 2008
A jilted husband flew almost 300 miles and viciously attacked a man who had reignited an old romance with his wife through Facebook.
Stephen Henshaw, 39, assaulted love rival Jake Hamon after his wife, Tammy, said she was going to leave him for her ex-boyfriend and was taking their two young children with her.

Former estate agent Henshaw flew to the tiny Channel Island Alderney and beat up Mr Hamon so badly his jaw bone was left exposed and he had to spend the night in hospital.

Henshaw is back at home in Cedar Close, Grimsargh, near Preston, after he was spared jail.

He was sentenced to three months in prison, suspended for three years, after pleading guilty to unlawful and malicious wounding.

His brunette wife was back at the couple's semi-detached home on Monday but declined to comment, saying it was a "private matter".

A court in Alderney heard how Mrs Henshaw and Mr Hamon - her former boyfriend - had become reacquainted through the social networking site Facebook and began texting, emailing and talking on the phone.

She then told her husband she was leaving him and was moving to Alderney - the island where she lived until she turned 15 - to be with Mr Hamon.

Henshaw then travelled to Manchester and got on a plane to Guernsey before arriving in Alderney at midday on Friday May 2.

Paul Yabsley, prosecuting, told the court: "He immediately traced Mr Hamon to the harbour.

"He approached Mr Hamon while he was kneeling down and working on a boat.

"The defendant used his fists to strike Mr Hamon in the head, causing him to fall to the floor.

"As Mr Hamon was getting up, the defendant kicked him.

"This caused Mr Hamon to fall to the floor again, after which he was kicked in the back for a second time."

Seconds after the attack, the battered victim told Henshaw he had "got the wrong man".

As Henshaw left the harbour, he told Mr Hamon where he was going so police could arrest him. He was arrested at a friend's house and charged.

Mr Hamon needed eight stitches in his mouth and suffered bruising under his left eye and a scalp injury, as well as the jaw injury.

'Stressful events'

Mr Hamon also urinated blood, which Mr Yabsley said implied trauma to his right kidney.

Julia White, defending, said Henshaw had not travelled to Alderney for a fight.

She said: "He was not planning to beat up Mr Hamon and fly back to Manchester quickly in order to escape punishment.

"This incident is due to the culmination of many traumatic and stressful events.

"Since my client's wife has made contact with Mr Hamon, she has visited Alderney and subsequently returned to say their marriage is over.

"She also said she is prepared to leave him with their children, an eight-year-old boy who is autistic and a three-year-old girl.

"However, my client's wife has since said she intends to take the children with her to Alderney.

"This decision left my client feeling he has nothing to live for, as he recently lost his job as a result of taking time off work to care for the children while his wife was in Alderney."

Sentencing, Jurat Partridge - the Alderney version of a judge - said: "Your early guilty plea and previous good character were noted, but the Jurats cannot ignore the fact you carried out a deliberate assault."

Henshaw's father, who was sitting in the public gallery, wept as the verdict was announced.

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12/05/2008 10:28:27
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AndrewJM,

Preston City Centre 12/05/2008 13:09:46
Shouldn't this story be in Hello Magazine. Why is this news?
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brigpnefan,

preston 12/05/2008 15:29:47
No man should steal another mans wife!Good on the husband, this boyfriend should have waited until the wife left him after a period of being apart. Just deserts,boyfriend got!
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Firewall,

Cyberspace 12/05/2008 18:47:05
I am not condoning the violence that was meted out by Mr. Henshaw but, as a man, I can sympathise with the fact that he took time off work to care for his children whilst his wife was off having an affair with another man and Mr. Henshaw was then subsequently sacked from his job as a result of taking the time off. His wife then decided that she could take Mr. Henshaws children away from him to start a new life with another man leaving poor Mr. Henshaw jobless, wifeless, marriageless and childless! All that I can say is that Mrs. Henshaw must be a very shallow individual indeed to have behaved in such a cunning, coniving and deceitful way. She also seems to have failed to take account of the wants and needs of her own children, preferring to put herself first before her husband, children and marriage.

I think there is a wider issue here. Clearly Mr. Henshaw loves his kids as indicated by the fact that he lost his job to care for them (good priorities). Time and time again we hear in the media and from women in general that men do not take responsibility for their offspring and always put their own needs first. This story is yet another example of the wool that has been pulled over our eyes for many years. The fact of the matter is, men do love their children very deeply and faced with the prospect of losing them they (quite understandably) resort to extreme measures. Many men have committed suicide before now when confronted by similar circumstances. I am not making excuses here, just stating facts.

The problem these days is that modern women seem to put their own needs before their childrens. I am not saying that all women do this but a great many do in my experience. Too many in fact. There is a selfish element in todays world where women now feel that they can have their proverbial cake and eat it (have children with one man, raise them with another but take what I consider to be a disproportionate amount of the fathers income and assets when they decide th
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Firewall,

Cyberspace 12/05/2008 18:49:19
at they "fancy a change").

It is a sad fact of our society that men still get an unjustly bad press whilst women largely utilise both the system and modern society's views (or lack of) to further their own ends and personal greed.

I wish you the very best of luck Mr. Henshaw and I hope that you secure good well paid employment in the near future and that your children are permitted to retain the strong bond with their father that has clearly been demonstrated in the report above.

Mrs. Henshaw, try thinking of your husband and children first before you hop into bed with somebody from your distant past!!

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brigpnefan,

preston 12/05/2008 19:02:11
Do you know Firewall your post has hit the nail on the head,i know men who have been put over a barrel and came out of it in a mess myself included.The law is one sided and men do get hammered,and no thought for the kids is the biggest heartache.
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shameful,

preston 12/05/2008 19:21:21
i think women like mrs henshaw give women a bad name what she has done to her husband is utterly degrading you cant blame mr henshaw it sounds like he has been pushed to the limit i dont like violence but i suppose sometimes it cant be helped good luck for the future mr henshaw nobody wants a women like that
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Firewall,

Cyberspace 12/05/2008 20:39:56
Same here brigpnefan and it saddens me to say that I have brothers, mates and acquaintences who have all suffered the same fate. ALL of them good husbands and fathers I hasten to add. Their "crime"? There wasn't one they were simply the victims of the decadence of the modern day female of the species, who unfortunately now do have the upper hand. I have a mate at this moment who has had to cope with his "wife" "meeting" a guy off the internet, she has kicked my mate out and this new guy is now "uncle" to his two young children as he stops over in the family home at weekends. How sickening! My mate is a good, decent and honourable man, hardworking and self sacrificing. He has put years into building up his family's living standards. Alas, when it comes to the courts and the CSA, my mate is the poor relation whilst his so called wife lives off what he earns and gets her cheap thrills with Mr. Internet Man. The telling point to this story is that she is desperate that nobody finds out how she met this guy. She obviously knows that as a married woman, wife and mother her behaviour was both pre-meditated and reprehensible yet she cannot stand up and admit what she has done. Again, how sickening!

I have seen too many good men humiliated and demoralised by a system that positively discriminates against them. The emotional trauma of being cheated on by your spouse, giving up your home and losing your kids pales into insignificance when another "man" assumes the role of husband and father and takes his position in the matrimonial bed.

The fact of the matter is that there is a "sisterhood" in the female of the species. Women have a great support network, men do not. This is why men turn to alcohol, drugs and spiral into various stages mental ill-health including (but not limited to) depression, low self esteem, anxiety and unfortunately suicide.

Men need to come together and support each other.

No doubt there are some women out there who will take issue with my p
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Firewall,

cyberspace 12/05/2008 21:10:51
No doubt there are some women out there who will take issue with my posts but to them I say, I am sorry and saddened to have to say that what I write is not speculation but is based on both my experience and the experience of others.

Guys, more than ever we need to stick together :o)
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